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Hi my name is Cassandra. I am 21. I am a recovering cutter, ex-anorexic, victim of abusive relationships, victim of sexual assault, a bi polar individual, and i am bi sexual. I know how it can feel to be discriminated towards and treated badly. My goal is to become a psychologist. :0)
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Anonymous asked
He's telling me all these sexual things... pretty much his fantasies.. and honestly, I"ve had fantasies EXACTLY LIKE HIS but on the receiving end if that makes sense. Like it's basically VERY ROUGH SEX and he wants to give it to someone VERY ROUGHLY LOL I'm a virgin, is that weird?! and anyway, I think this is just another sign that we should be together. LOL. Am I CRAZY?! We're sooo dang similar and we get along sooo well... I can imagine being with him for a very very long time.

I don’t think you are crazy or weird„,without knowing your age and some more specifics i feel like the best advice i can give you is that you need to know you are ready and that it is not just your hormones talking. I think that if you all want to give a relationship a try you should take it slow. Even if you all want the same thing physically it doesn’t mean you have to rush into it. That way you all can see if you are compatible and you won’t have to worry about giving your virginity and full heart away too hastily. 

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Oh my goodness!!!!!! My bestffriend who I honestly have feelings for... Well long story somewhat short, I liked him, he friendzoned me, got a girlfriend, they broke up. Recently, he's been touchyy and flirtatious and even before they broke up, he was always very sweet to me. Before he had his most recent girlfriend, another girl fucked him over and cheated on him. He was sooo hurt. so everyone thinks he used that girl for a rebound. NOW, (part one)

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ladyoftheskulls asked
That was awhile ago (break just ended this weekend) and it never got to a point where I had to tell her that, but thanks for the advice, and I'll be put to use over summer! (Please don't delete)

of course :0)

ladyoftheskulls asked
Hi Cassi, ok this is going to be kind a weird story. I have a friend who is adamant about being roomies in four years, but while I'm home for break wants to hang out 7 days a week. I'm not sure how to tell her I thrive more on being alone and I need some space to be comfortable. I would love to room, because we aren't obligated to do things together, we can just live together, but if I hang out with her, I get a social claustrophobia, because we have to do things. I just don't know what to do.

You need to do what is right for you. Just express to her that this is what you need. Put your sentences in I and me forms. Make sure she knows it has nothing to do with her that you are just better this way. I think as long as you are not stating that it is her fault or that you don’t want to be friends anymore then things will be ok. Growing up and changing is what makes friendships stronger or pulls them apart. The stronger ones are the great ones to keep and the ones that are pulled apart….well that is the better path for all in the situation. Good luck and let me know how it goes..

Blessed Be

Cassie

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Honestly? I feel like you shouldn’t. Sure people may not be asking anything, but I’ve noticed quite a number of tumblogs shutting down that shouldn’t be gone. Maybe not soon, but someday, others will need advice… and this should be the place. =)

THINKING ABOUT SHUTTING DOWN….THOUGHTS?

I just feel like no one is submitting or asking for advice anymore….Is there anything you all would like to see or hear about in between asks and submissions? Will you ask or submit? 

Personal

I must say that i usually do not like the holidays. I think they are depressing and hard. My family and i get along to a point but not like we should. I have always felt a little out of place in large family situations. This holiday however was really great. I got a lot of presents i actually really wanted and there were very few bad incidents with family members which was amazing. Today Chris and i went shopping with some of our hard earned work money from Christmas weekend and money we got from family. I was spoiled today. We got a new laptop for me since mine bit the dust, we got shelves for my Monster High collection, and lastly we got a copy of Star Wars The Old Republic for me. Of course we came home and Chris and i proceeded to play for the next 5 hours. Can’t wait to get back to it but they have an update scheduled for the next 6 hours. Poo. 

I hope that everyone got what they wanted and got to spend time with the ones they love. 

Now that i have a laptop that works there will be photos and videos up with monster high reviews, makeup junk, other reviews, and more. :0) 

Blessed Be

Cassie