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I have been a cutter for 15 years. I hardly do it any more unless I just hit my breaking point but there was a time I was addicted to it, I go longer & longer now between cuts. I just recently found out that my good friends cousin is cutting & she is only 13 she will not talk to anyone & no-one understands her and I feel that I could be a good outlet for her because I have been there done that so I reached out to her mother to tell my story and let her know that I can "help" but how do I start
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Start by listening. Let her know that you are not going to judge her and that you do not know exactly what she is going through but you care and are willing to listen until you understand. Also remember to draw the line. It is ok for you to help and talk to her about your personal experience and listen but know when things are too deep and when she may need professional help. Cutting doesn’t always have to do with suicide but it can and it is a dangerous line. So if you think her life is in danger do NOT be afraid to speak up to an adult or someone who can help her. She may be mad at first but saving her life is number one.
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Everyday i struggle with self harm thoughts but i am so proud of myself for staying strong and knowing that that is not the answer and i have other choices. I know the feelings will never go 100% away but they will dissipate.
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so, for the past month or so, I've been.. happy! Well, I stopped myself from crying whenever i felt like it. stopped telling my bestfriend whats wrong and how I'm feeling. going out a lot and just trying to have fun. but I'm still really sad. I think about cutting a lot more now though. Im starting my senior year and since I move a lot, I'm going in alone. I feel alone, like I won't make it on the vball team or pass my classes. I just want to jump out my window but i know it won't kill me.. Anonymous
Bottling up your feelings and not letting things out makes life harder. You need to process what you are feeling. I honestly find crying, talking about what is wrong, and journaling really helps me keep from self harming. Even you talk to someone you don’t know like me about what you are upset about it gets the feelings and negative energy out of your body. You are not alone. My senior year was really hard for me. I never had any real close friends. That was partly my fault for separating myself and partly just because no one understood what i was going through. Focus on yourself. Set some goals and work towards them and don’t let the fear of failing stop you. Even if you don’t succeed the first time it does not mean you won’t succeed when you try again or find something as a result that is better for you. Just please don’t continue bottling things up. Pretending you are happy or ignoring your negative feelings will not make you happy.
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Any advice on how to admit to friends/family about self-harming? I’ve held in this secret for 2+ years, and I really hope one day sooner than later I can gain enough courage to let it out… ;^;
It helped me to admit it and get help. Talking about it made it something real that i could fix and not just something i hid and could act like didn’t happen. I would tell the people you trust most. Make sure they know that you need help and want their support.
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If you’re seeing this on your dashboard, I love you. I love you so much. You’re beautiful and strong and wonderful and useful and you can do this. You can get through whatever it is you’re struggling with. I promise you can. You can beat the depression, the anxiety, the cutting, the addiction, the eating disorder. Whatever it is, You are so much stronger than it. I believe in you. Please dont kill yourself tonight.
Depression Hotline: 1-630-482-9696
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can’t sleep…
i hate this because then im stuck with my thoughts… which only keeps me more awake ugh its a god damn cycle!
SOMEONE KEEP ME DISTRACTED
I am the same way. I find that it helps me if i put on a show or movie i have seen a lot so that i can roll over and listen to it while i fall asleep.
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Relapse. Fml
I am here if you want to talk. I know it is hard when i have relapsed. Just know that it does not have to mean that you completely revert. You can move forward from this.
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That moment when you realize just how worthless and pathetic you are, and that there’s no one you trust enough to talk to.
I doubt very well that you are worthless and pathetic. Also sometimes it helps to talk to someone who is not involved and is an outsider looking in. If you want to talk i am here.
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im crying
Just look at this and smile haha. I am here for anyone who wants to talk about anything, wants some advice, or just wants someone to listen.
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thanks so much, you're doing something so selfless. I just want you to know that you're appreciated
Thanks. I hope you are well and i am always here. :0)
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God I wish my mom wasn’t like this honestly she’s like some CSI investigator on my life she needs to stop before I break down I’m just pissed
My step dad was like that which made my mom like that. I learned how to hide things well. delete a lot of stuff and password protect everything. Just know she can only be in your personal space for so long and she may still try when you are in your own space but by then i learned to not be ashamed of me and worried what she would think of what she found. if she didn’t like it then oh well. she shouldn’t have looked.
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Makes my day better….hope it makes yours better too lol
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I feel like i’m not worth having in anyone’s life. Am I not doing enough? Am I not good enough? I wish I knew why its so hard to keep people in my life, and what I’m doing wrong. I wish i could disappear
You are enough….you are doing enough….People are flakey and nonsense at times….people will leave and hurt you…just remember that the ones that are worth it will stay and they are far few in between….It sucks and it hard….I just try to be the person i want to people to be in my lives. the people that that meant a lot to stayed and became that person in my life.
